After Lloyd-George’s death, Frances gave a TV interview.
At the very end of the interview, Frances was asked a seemingly innocent question: had she regretted not having a child? As Jennifer sat in her neighbour’s house [watching the television], she heard her mother deny her very existence, saying: ‘Lloyd George was my child’.
Hague’s emphasis on the distress this caused Jennifer seems slightly off-beam: on the same page we’re told that it was at her own insistence that Frances’s 1967 memoirs included no mention of her. Rather, I think it was a truth: Lloyd George, spoiled and pampered from childhood, remained childlike in many respects.
He threw jealous fits when Frances showed any sign of leaving his orbit and finding happiness elsewhere. He was a hypochondriac — ‘dismissive of others’ ailments as he was over-anxious about his own’. He had ‘a childlike fascination with parcels and could not resist poking around in them’. He once wrote home to his brother to boast that he had succeeded in boiling a kettle all by himself. He found certain door-handles challenging, and if shut in the dining room at Number 10 would have to await a rescue party.
That he was ‘to the end of his life ... never able to tie his own shoelaces’ seems scarcely believable; mere curiosity, surely, would have supplied the lack at some point. Yet there it is. He was also one of the great statesmen of our history.
Lloyd George went to his rest having sown half a lifetime of bitterness between his two families — his youngest daughter Megan, perhaps because she had spent so long so close to her, loathed Frances to her dying day.
But he himself, as A. J. said, got away with it. ‘There is so much satisfaction in “doing” the world!” he wrote to Frances in 1915. ‘I have defied it for 25 years — treated it with contempt, spat upon its tinsel robes, and I have won through.'



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David Short
June 16th, 2008 8:35pmWrong blog, AC....
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Amanda Craig
June 13th, 2008 12:40pmRachel Johnson has her finger on the pulse of a certain kind of parent, but not, heaven forbid, all of us. Like her, I have observed the insect-like crawl of tiny children weighed down by cellos, whose every hour must be filled.However, what her article overlooks is that children have minds of their own, and by 11 tend to dig their heels in, preferring to play World of Warcraft or watch Absolutely Fabulous for the 300th time instead of learning Mandarin. Some even discover reading or, in the case of my children when faced with yet another au pair who couldn't cook, cooking. Many parents of the present generation can remember having relatively little time with their parents, being turned out of doors with sandwiches and left to their own devices for the rest of the day; these, as Francis Gilbert pointed out in The New School Rules, are among our most blissful memories of childhood. The big problem our children face is not lack of parenting time but that they have no more freedom than battery hens.
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