Sexually cautious at a time when, professionally, it paid to be so, he was most revealing in intimate letters sent to women, notably the doyen of film critics during his lifetime, Dilys Powell, the author Penelope Mortimer, the film producer Ann Skinner, and close friends such as Jill Melford. To them he revealed his innermost fears, nor did he shy away from exposing his hates. He could be kind, he could be generous, he could be poisonous in his opinions, pulling no punches, and yet I knew him to be unsure and vulnerable. With Forwood gone he formed no new relationship, and when the slings and arrows of age came at him fast and furious from all directions, he suffered loneliness and ill health with remarkable courage; occupying a small Kensington apartment, confined to a wheelchair after a stroke, cut off from most forms of ordinary intercourse, he still retained a sense of humour about his condition and until the last two years kept correspondence going at his usual pace. I recommend the very last entry in this engrossing book in which he lists all his hates and some of his loves, the final love being ‘long letters’. His many fans, blue-rinsed or not, will happily agree.


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NORA
May 21st, 2009 11:36pmI am at present, halfway through this wonderfully absorbing book. Having read all of Dirk`s biogs. starting with Postillion, I am an avid reader of Bogarde`s and am thrilled to have yet another insight to this terrific actor and subsequently very talented writer. I agree with everything already said about the book. My most favourite book being An Orderley Man, I feel, once again, that I am living at Clermont, through the pages of the book. Sadly, as Dirk approaches 64 years of age, his and Tony`s life at their beloved Clermont, seems to be coming to an end and I am acutely aware of the bubble about to burst. Gone is the initial energy as both grow older and Tony`s illnesses are a huge concern. Being 68 myself with a husband of the same age, I very much relate to the fact that gardening and physical tasks are becomimg very much more difficult to perform though the spirit indeed is willing!
A terrific read. One which Bogarde fans will relish. What I shall do when I`ve finished it I don`t know! Probably re-read An Orderley Man!
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