Toby Young suffers from Status Anxiety
Bad news this week for those who fear we’re becoming a nation of girlie men. According to a survey carried out by Demos, a third of men who graduated from university this summer would give up their careers to care for their children. In addition, more than half the men surveyed said they frequently dress up in women’s clothing, while 66 per cent admitted they still hide behind the sofa during Doctor Who.
Okay, I made that last part up, but I wouldn’t be surprised. The feminisation of the latest generation of young men never ceases to amaze me. With their long, blow-dried hair, their expensive designer clothes, their ‘man bags’ and jewellery, they are like some terrifying new genetic hybrid: half-man, half-Barbie doll. God help us all if President Ahmadinejad ever decides to launch an invasion. If these milksops are responsible for the defence of the realm, the mullahs will be in Downing Street within 24 hours.
Whatever happened to the solid yeomanry of England? The obvious answer is to blame the Femi-Nazis. The relentless feminist critique of masculinity that has been blaring out of our schools and universities since the 1960s has taken its toll. Today’s young men have been ideologically programmed to believe that any overt display of masculinity — tucking their shirts in, for instance — would be an endorsement of ‘the patriarchy’. Far better to make common cause with the oppressed by using moisturiser and eating salad.
No doubt that’s part of it, but there’s also something less rational going on. Martin Amis’s analysis, as advanced in The Pregnant Widow, is that it’s women’s sexual liberation that has frightened the horses, not the endless theorising that’s accompanied it. Men simply can’t deal with women expressing sexual desire — it reduces them to timid little mice. We can cope when women burn their bras. It’s seeing them take them off and beckon us towards them that has left us castrated.
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Mr Withheld
September 22nd, 2010 10:47am Report this commentWhen has Toby Young ever been considered a bastion of manliness?
Alan Campbell
September 23rd, 2010 8:43pm Report this commentA bit of hair-envy going on here.
Cynthia
September 30th, 2010 3:22pm Report this commentAlan, that's what a girl would say.
Rinson Drei
September 30th, 2010 3:30pm Report this commentA couple of things.
First, peacocks are male. Humanity is the exceptional in an animal kingdom full of dull females and attractive males.
Second, the idea that the Arab/Persian Islamic world is full of manly-men types should easily be shot down by comparative sales of cologne and Italian shoes in the US and Iran.
Third, as more of our men begin coming home from Iraq and Afghanistan, look for a sharp reordering of women's criteria.
Lance
September 30th, 2010 3:39pm Report this comment"If you’re looking for courage, tenacity and strength, look no further than the current generation of young women."
This is nonsense. Women are taking advantage of systemic privileges that men created and enforce for them. Quick, name me a female trailblazer in math, science, technology or business? The only power women acquire is that which they convince men to give up.
John Rich
September 30th, 2010 4:52pm Report this commentHere in America, the Nanny State and its intrusions into our lives shares the blame.
Take the admonition "don't run with scissors" and expand it; our society is producing milksops afraid to run lest they skin their knees.
Exceptions? Scots-Irish Americans, mostly from our South, who man our military. Big-city males? Neutered.
Lee
September 30th, 2010 5:18pm Report this commentA) Men during the Restoration were into shoe fashion, clothing fashion, make-up and hair. So "manly men" weren't always manly men.
B) Humans are NOT the exception in the animal kingdom. You can't compare birds and mammals. And among mammals, even primates, sexual dimorphism is usually expressed through body mass and canine tooth size, and to a lesser degree, pelage.
C) Marie Curie, Rosalind Franklin, Madame CJ Walker... Unless you meant current female trailblazers...
D) On the whole, I do think Toby Young has a point.
Jeff
September 30th, 2010 7:41pm Report this commentI would point out that it was a tiny percentage of men during the Restoration who went limp.
Fred
October 1st, 2010 2:21pm Report this commentSir: you're a genius!
witwoud
October 1st, 2010 8:55pm Report this commentNice article. I think there's a backlash against girlie boys from women themselves, however. The massive popularity of shows like Mad Men and Life on Mars, which are watched by millions of women and a handful of men, are proof of this. They are a wonderful exercise in having your cake and eating it; the film-makers certainly know their stuff. On the one hand there's a plucky female protagonist (brilliant at her job but ignored) for women to identify with, and on the other hand there are hairy-backed sexist gorillas to secretly drool over. If that plucky female protagonist ever became a powerful female boss with a team of girlie boys at her beck and call, I doubt the shows would be quite so popular.
It may be true that feminism killed off Gene Hunt, but women still desire him. Intellectually, however, they have to disapprove of him too.
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