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Other People’s Daughters: The Life and Times of Governesses

The uneasy world between

Ruth Brandon
Weidenfeld, 303pp, £20,
Philip Hensher
Wednesday, 12th March 2008

Philip Hensher on Ruth Brandon's new book

The literary role is so useful that it long survived the rise of women’s education, and, indeed, women’s introduction into the professional classes. Elizabeth Taylor and Ivy Compton-Burnett are still writing about governesses well after the second world war. In Compton-Burnett’s case, she usually treated them with all the contempt she could muster, probably because she herself was so often presumed to have been a governess when young, on the basis of her social manner. (Robert Liddell used to fantasise that Ivy had been a governess in the House of Atreus). Nowadays, nannies have taken over many of the roles of the old governesses, often being asked in W11 to speak French or Mandarin and instil some of the abilities that used to be referred to as accomplishments. They occupy the uneasy world between employee and companion, rivals with mothers for a child’s devotion, and are often, as in the 19th century, rather more graceful than their newly rich employers. A fictional revival of this versatile and memorable class of being is surely long overdue.

Ruth Brandon’s book addresses a remarkably interesting subject, exploring the real-life experiences that supplied so rich a vein of literature. It has numerous ramifications, and the surrounding subjects of the drive for women’s formal education and the oppressive legal nature that the 19th-century alternative of marriage was formed by are covered as well.

The governess was often perceived as being an emotional and social threat. Many gentlewomen were forced into the role by some financial catastrophe, reminding the families they worked for of a terrible possibility. Moreover, their intimacy with children often roused the mother’s hostility, and a war for the child’s love was the result. By the middle of the century, a spate of bank failures had hugely oversupplied the market with under- educated would-be governesses, some of whom were reduced to working for £20 a year, or even for nothing except bed and board. What happened to these when they grew too old to work — perhaps only at 40 — does not bear thinking about. Only very few governesses earned more than £200 a year; Sir George Stephen in 1844 only found a dozen. Charlotte Brontë, paid £20 a year in 1841, was much more typical.

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Marķa-José Ugarte

March 15th, 2008 1:15am

'Some of these yearning women, deprived of all fulfilment, whether intellectual, professional or sexual, must have been nervy and difficult people to share all but the largest houses with.' I object to this definition of a Governess. I was born in the early 40s and I had a nanny until I was 5 or 6 years old. From then up to 12 or so, I had a governess. She was a Secondary School Teacher. As we lived at a walk distance from the school, she was the one taking me there and coming to pick me up and was my coach with my homework. I went out with her to play with my friends - daughters of my parents' friends - either in parks or at their homes. All of the governesses were friends, facilitating in this way keep the 'environment' that our parents wished. I must say that I had a natural affection for my governess but it never took the place of the love and emotional affection that I had for my mother. There was no rivalry in my home as the one mentioned above. I think that the book should have had an apendix with the experiences of the ones we had a governess - and perhaps not from the UK. Marķa-José Ugarte

Liz Babcock

March 23rd, 2008 8:25pm

"Governess in the House of Atreus:" pure gold!

Liz Babcock

March 23rd, 2008 8:29pm

Ivy-Compton Burnett the "governess in the House of Atreus:" pure gold! The author neglects to mention the account of Nancy Mitford of the poor harried ones in her family, driven out by the shenanigans of her and her scapegrace sisters, until the parents hired one they liked: she took them on shop-lifting expeditions.

Paula Wagstaff

March 24th, 2008 1:50am

And then of course there was the Winston Churchills nanny, who was a Christian..who when he died, had her photo besides his bed.

It is a shame society looks down on the most vital of careers, and yet somebody has to do it.
As materialism and greed blinds so many to what is of importance, and robs them of so much, while pretending to offer so much ... why are doctors leaving Malawi and my country (New Zealand) for more pay elsewhere.
Women left their children to work, and for more money, not being content with being in the home to raise their own children.

Some of use chose to step into their shoes, knowing there were more Winston Churchills being born.

Maybe I should write my own book.
paulawagstaff.com

Lucy Matheson

March 25th, 2008 11:32am

Perhaps I was exceptionally lucky, but my time as a governess was an extremely happy one and I am still very much in touch with the family and hope I shall always be. It helps that the mother of the family had been to my school and studied the same course as I was studying at the same University and so was very aware that I was the same as her, just a few years behind her.

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