Shortly after rekindling my relationship with the builder boyfriend, I had another hair-brained scheme. I brought the mad chestnut mare in from her retirement field thinking that while I’m U-turning on crucial decisions with Cameronesque ease, I might as well review my policy on horses, as well as men.
The mad chestnut mare is 25 and murderously bad-tempered. Age has done nothing to mellow her. The staff at the stables call her ‘the old bag’. She is like an elderly relative in a nursing home who derives perverse pleasure from giving the people who look after her hell. Whenever I turn up, I am greeted with comments such as: ‘The old bag was kicking the door for her breakfast at six this morning.’
‘Oh dear, I’m so sorry. I’ll have a word with her.’
But of course I don’t dare. On approaching her stable I simply call out ‘Room service!’ and chuck a load of hay over the door. Anything else is asking for trouble. She once reached over and bit the gamekeeper as he walked past, taking a chunk out of his head. He has never let me forget it and I’m pretty sure my packs of venison are a bit on the small side as a result.
I’ve tried everything to make Tara rideable, including having her fitted with £160 remedial shoes to aid her posture. She’s been X-rayed, blood-tested and physioed. She’s had more massages than I have. She’s been dosed with liver tonic, hormone treatment, calmers and supplements. She’s even had reiki.
But I don’t think she’s in any discomfort at all. She just doesn’t want to be ridden. She wants to be left alone in a stable to eat hay. But elderly horses have no business standing still in stables, running up hundreds of pounds a month in livery fees and stiffening their joints when they ought to be saving their owner’s money and kicking their heels up in a field. Besides, I have two other sweet-natured, rideable horses so there really is no need to do battle with a homicidal hunter as I approach the age of osteoporosis.
With a heavy heart, therefore, I decided to turn Tara away. I rugged her up and out she went. Every evening I took her a feed and she seemed perfectly happy. Whenever I drove past she was either munching grass, sleeping or chasing another horse around the field.
But after a few weeks she got bored and disappeared. One night I went to take her dinner and after searching for ages, I found her wedged in a ditch, wrapped in barbed wire. She’d broken through the electric fencing — she’s quite partial to a few hundred volts — in search of newer pastures.
She was standing stock-still and gave me a look out of the corner of her eye that said, ‘You took your time. Don’t tell me you haven’t brought wire cutters? This could get nasty, you know. Haven’t you seen War Horse?’
I called the gamekeeper, who came with pliers, climbed into the ditch and struggled with the barbed wire until Tara was free. She was unscathed but his middle finger was broken. ‘Good job I’ve got nine others,’ he said sarcastically, no doubt making a mental note to cut my venison rations further.
As I led her away, Tara tossed her head in the air and pranced past her field mates with a look that said ‘See ya later, mugs!’
‘If you are coming in, and I mean if, you are going to have to be ridden,’ I said, as she pushed past me into her old box and snatched up a mouthful of hay.
And so it was that in a moment of madness, I tacked up Tara and rode her down the lane. We had only been going ten minutes before she put in a filthy buck as we cantered around the meadow next to Wisley airfield. I landed on my back, rolled and banged my head. When I came round, the old girl was munching grass.
‘How could you do that to me?’ I shouted. She looked sideways, mouth stuffed full of grass: ‘Keep your hair on. A horse has to eat. I’ve barely had a bite since we left the stable.’
When I got home, cross-eyed and sleepy with concussion, the builder was aghast. ‘What were you thinking? Why on earth did you decide to give it another go? Never go back.’
So true. But we are even now on our way to Warwickshire in his battered pick-up truck, spaniel sitting between us, to spend Christmas with my folks.
We had a terrible time last year when he drank too much champagne and disgraced me. But you never know. If I give it another whirl, maybe things will be different.
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