Sam Leith Sam Leith

Should we forgive Penelope Jackson?

It shouldn’t seem cruel or controversial, still less misogynistic to think that murder is wrong.

Penelope Jackson is arrested after stabbing her husband to death (Credit: Somerset Police)

The most poignant detail, I think, about the story of Penelope Jackson – jailed for 18 years for stabbing her husband to death – was the reaction of her late husband’s younger brother Alan. He said he intended to visit her in prison: 

‘I want to say to her, ‘What you’ve gone through I can quite imagine. I know what he was like towards me and my wife. You’re not on your own’.’ 

Alan Jackson was estranged from his brother – whom he described as an ‘arrogant bully’ – and said: 

‘No one deserves to die the way he did but I can believe Penny would have been pushed to her limits.’

Did she stab him out of cold rage, out of frustration, or out of a sense that her life had become so tiny that there was nothing else she could do?

That has the ring of truth. I absolutely believe coercive control is a real thing; that it can traumatise its victims and wreck their lives and their sense of selfhood.

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