Mary Killen Mary Killen

Dear Mary: Will sharing a bed ruin our friendship?

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issue 18 March 2023

Q. I am a 29-year-old gay man. About four months ago I met a man at least 30 years older than me. We have become very good friends with many shared interests. I am certain that my friend (let’s call him ‘Tom’) has enjoyed the friendship as much as I have.

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