Mary Killen Mary Killen

Your Problems Solved | 16 August 2003

Etiquette advice from The Spectator's Miss Manners

issue 16 August 2003

Dear Mary…

Q. What should you answer when a lady whom you have not seen for 30 years greets you with the question, ‘You do not remember who I am, do you?’ when you don’t?
P.S., Cornwall

A. You should not worry. Such a lapse in memory is not the offence it was in the days when circles of friends and acquaintances were more manageably sized.

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