Two men and no baby
The sorrow of involuntary childlessness is profound. The award-winning novelist Patrick Flanery and his husband knew this pain. Their craving to love and nurture a child left them with an intractable emptiness. Flanery has no siblings; his parents lived abroad, and he had a difficult relationship with his father. So his desire was to create the close-knit family he never had. I sympathised deeply with the couple. Their tenderness and dedication to parenthood is obvious, but when they investigated the options open to them, they found most doors if not actually locked, then spring-loaded shut. Despite Flanery’s sensitivity, he occasionally shows lapses of insight, as when he admits resenting those
