Dear Mary…
Q. During lunch at the house of some friends of my parents, I was put between two boys from Bryanston who talked across me through each course as though I didn’t exist. I did not take their rudeness personally – in fact, I was quite sleepy that day and would have been quite happy to drift off into a personal reverie had not their voices been quite so loud.

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